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![]() Ministry Fair begins this weekend, October 4/5 with Activities and Christian Service. See the volunteer profile and ministry opportunities on pages 3-5 and be sure to stop in Bethany to see what we have to offer. Forms can also be obtained on line, in the bulletin, or at the Ministry Fair. Return completed forms either at the inistry Fair or by fax, 248-391-3412, in the collection basket or by mail. Ministry Fair Continues next weekend, October 11/12 with the Education Commission. See page |
Liturgical Ministers Evening of Enrichment Sunday, October 19 from 5:00-7:00 p.m. YOUR INVITED ..
The evening will begin with prayer and enrichment. Break out sessions will follow allowing us time with those sharing in our ministry. We will provide a training schedule for the new members of the ministries and refresher training for those who feel the need. The evening concludes with light refreshments and fellowship in the Bethany room. Please put this evening on your calendar and make it a priority! We look forward to seeing you there. |
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![]() The first part of todays Gospel parable spends a lot of time telling us about the landowner. The point is that the earth doesnt belong to people. Life does not belong to people. We dont own it. We are all renters here. You get to participate in the ultimate mystery of time and space but you do not own it; it is somebody elses possession. All we can really do is acknowledge our tenant status and participate in its gifts and offer its realities to the one who does own it. This is an obvious truth because of the fact of birth and death. We are only passing through. You cant really argue this deep truth, but you can easily forget it. The one who owns it sends people to remind us that we are renting. But we do not like this so we kill the messengers. The drive for possession and the will to murder is at the center point of the story. "This is the heir; come, let us kill him and get his inheritance." (Mt. 21:38) This drive to possess what is not ours is fundamental to the human story. The first murder in the book of Genesis is driven by the desire to possess. The name "Cain" in Hebrew means to possess. We are not content to participate and bear the fruits of the owner; we want to possess it. Most sins are rooted not in generosity but in selfishnessa concern about my wants over anothers needs, a focus on my will over Gods. Emphasis on getting and having is rampant in our culture. "The one with the most toys wins" is the way were often encouraged to gauge our own worth and that of others. God is the most generous of loversthe giver of life, blessings and salvation. All of us have dignity and worth simply because we are Gods loved creation. We must acknowledge Gods gifts to us and recognize the value and rights of all others. We are called to be Christian stewards, to "receive Gods gifts gratefully, cultivate them responsibly, share them lovingly in justice with others, and return them with increase to the Lord" (United States Catholic Catechism for Adults, p. 450). Under the umbrella of our stewardship are life, possessions, truth and justice. The U.S. Bishops have called our leaders to find moral responses to the current financial crisis. "This crisis involves far more than just economic or technical matters, but has enormous human impact and clear ethical dimensions which should be at the center of debate and decisions on how to move forward. Families are losing their homes. Retirement savings are at risk. People are losing jobs and benefits. Economic arrangements, structures and remedies should have as a fundamental purpose safeguarding human life and dignity. The scandalous search for excessive economic rewards even to the point of dangerous speculation that exacerbates the pain and losses of the more vulnerable are egregious examples of an economic ethic that places economic gain above all other values . As Church leaders we ask that you give proper priority to the poor and the most vulnerable." (http://www.usccb.org/comm/ archives/2008/08-140.shtml) During October, we focus on our stewardship of all Gods gifts; the most fundamental of these gifts is life itself. The sacredness of human life is at the heart of Catholic moral teaching, but this has ethical consequences for many dimensions of human life. E. J. Dionne, in his discussion about abortion a core issue of the Catholic respect for life ethic points out the economic factors that impact this issue. "The public debate usually ignores the fact that abortion rates are closely tied to income. As the Guttmacher Institute has reported, "the abortion rate among women living below the federal poverty level...is more than four times that of women above 300 percent of the poverty level." The numbers are stark: 44 abortions per 1,000 women in the lower income group, 10 abortions per 1,000 women in the higher income group. In other words: If you truly care about reducing the number of abortions, you have to care about the well-being of poor women." ("Souled Out," p. 109) Fr.
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Not Your
Ordinary Food Drive The Service Commission is sponsoring a Not Your Ordinary Food Drive to benefit Ronald McDonald House in Detroit on October 11 & 12. Ronald McDonald House serves families with seriously ill or injured children being treated in any area hospital. In some instances, they become home for the children themselves as they receive outpatient care. The goal is to provide a home away from home for families whose children are receiving medical care. A portion of their funding comes from the McDonald owner/ operators. The remainder must be raised by the House through fundraising and individual contributions. Families pay a nominal fee of $10 a night for their stay in one of the 25 bedrooms. They also have 17 bathrooms, a living room and playrooms and a large communal kitchen. This year, they have some very specific needs and a special request. Needs: QUEEN SIZE white sheets, Tidy Bowl, dryer sheets, Febreeze, large bottles of shampoo/ conditioner, toilet brushes, zip lock bags, sturdy paper plates and bowls and plastic forks and laundry soap. Their special request is for rollaway beds, cots or blow up sleeping mattresses. So in case these items may be languishing in your attic or garage, Ronald McDonald can put them to good use! Thank you in advance for your generosity. Final Garden Clean Up
Please join us on Saturday, October 11 from 9:00 a.m. 12:00 Noon for our final garden clean up. Many hands are needed to help put our gardens to bed for the winter. Teens needing community service hours are welcome. If you can help please sign up on the bulletin boards located in Gingellville Corridor or email us at ctrservice@ameritech.net. Please bring your own work gloves and hand tools. We are so appreciative of all our talented gardeners who have helped us maintain our beautiful gardens all season. Thank you for your hard work! |
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Last Name: ______________________________ First Name: __________________________
Address: ____________________________________________________________________
| Phone Numbers: | Home:
___________ Cell:: ___________ Work:: ___________ Which number is primary/secondary:: ___________ Best time to call:: ___________ |
Email:______________________________________________________________________
Availability; days of the week & time: ______________________________________________
Occupation: _________________________________________________________________
Access to vehicle/type: _________________________________________________________
Available to provide transportation for people/items: ___________________________________
Personal interests/hobbies: _____________________________________________________
Do you have any limitations? ____________________________________________________
Your skills/talents/gifts: _________________________________________________________
Have you previously volunteered at:
Christ the Redeemer _______________________________________________
Other: ________________________________________________________________
In what capacity ___________________________________________________
Is there anything else you would like to share with Christ the Redeemer: ____________________
About how much time would you like
to be involved with volunteer activities at Christ the
Redeemer:
_________________________________________________________________
How much notice do you need to have? ___________________________________________
SEE REVERSE SIDE FOR MINISTRY OPPORTUNITIES
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Activity Name | Description | Time Frame | Chairperson |
| Tiger Baseball Games | Order group tickets & sell to community | Twice Yearly | Dawn Cejka | |
| Parish Picnic | Help plan, set-up, & work annual picnic following the Mass in the Grass | Yearly-Sept. | Dawn Cejka & Starla Wilcenski | |
| Upland Hills Farm Harvest Fest | Set-up group discount and place article in bulletin | Yearly-Oct. | Dawn Cejka | |
| Beer/Wine Tasting | Plan, set-up and work function | Yearly-Nov. | Dawn Cejka & Starla Wilcenski | |
| Basketball America-Family Day | Plan,organize and recruit families for event | Yearly-Jan. | Dawn Cejka | |
| Children's Mardi Gras Party | Set-up and facilitate children's games before burning of ashes | Yearly-Tues. before Ash Wed. | Starla Wilcenski | |
| Euchre Parties | Set-up and facilitate party | 3-4 X Yearly | Dawn Cejka | |
| Mother/Daughter Tea | Plan, set-up, and facilitate tea | Yearly-Sat. in May | Starla Wilcenski | |
| Volleyball Team | Organize & publish team event | Yearly-Jan. | Dawn Cejka | |
| Volleyball Team Player | Play on coed volleyball team League Plays | Feb.-March | Dawn Cejka | |
| Softball Team Player | Play on coed softball team League Plays | June-Aug. | Dawn Cejka | |
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Last Name: ______________________________ First Name: __________________________
Address: ____________________________________________________________________
| Phone Numbers: | Home:
___________ Cell:: ___________ Work:: ___________ Which number is primary/secondary:: ___________ Best time to call:: ___________ |
Email:______________________________________________________________________
Availability; days of the week & time: ______________________________________________
Occupation: _________________________________________________________________
Access to vehicle/type: _________________________________________________________
Available to provide transportation for people/items: ___________________________________
Personal interests/hobbies: _____________________________________________________
Do you have any limitations? ____________________________________________________
Your skills/talents/gifts: _________________________________________________________
Have you previously volunteered at:
Christ the Redeemer _______________________________________________
Other: ________________________________________________________________
In what capacity ___________________________________________________
Is there anything else you would like to share with Christ the Redeemer: ____________________
About how much time would you like
to be involved with volunteer activities at Christ the
Redeemer:
_________________________________________________________________
How much notice do you need to have? ___________________________________________
SEE REVERSE SIDE FOR MINISTRY OPPORTUNITIES
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Activity Name | Description | Time Frame | Chairperson |
| Stephen Ministry | Confidential 1:1 companionship through a critical time. | Assigned | Mike & Karen Maloney | |
| Elizabeth Ministry | 1:1 support for infertility, prepregnancy, adoption & child rearing | As Needed | Karen/Lisa | |
| Ministries of Healing | Tends to spiritual, emotional & physical needs of the whole person | As Needed | Mari Reyes | |
| Visitation of the Sick | Visit sick of the parish in hospital or home | As Needed | Karen/Lisa | |
| Parish Health Ministry | Coordinate Flu Shot Clinic and Health Fair | Yearly | Karen/Lisa | |
| Blood Pressure Checks | Check blood pressure of parishioners after Masses | 6 x Yearly | Karen/Lisa | |
| Tender Loving Cookers | Provide a meal for a parish family in crisis. | As Needed | Lisa Jennings | |
| Card Workshop | Create handmade cards, at home or in a workshop | 6 x Yearly | Karen/Lisa | |
| Card Ministry | Send homemade greeting cards to parishioners | 2 x Monthly | Carol Alessi | |
| Funeral Coordinator | Coordinate volunteers for funeral luncheons | As Needed | Karen/Lisa | |
| Funeral Hospitality | Set-Up/prepare food, serve & clean up for funeral luncheons | As needed | Karen/Lisa | |
| Funeral Phone Calling | Make phone calls for volunteers or food donations | As Needed | Karen/Lisa | |
| Funeral Food Donations | Donate food for funeral luncheon | As Needed | Karen/Lisa | |
| Funeral Food Shopper | Purchase food items at Costco, GFS or Kroger | As Needed | Karen/Lisa | |
| Cookie Cherubs | Donate homemade cookies/desserts for parish events | Yearly | Karen/Lisa | |
| Saturday Pizza Ministry | Set-Up & Serve pizza & lemonade after Saturday Mass | 6 x Yearly | Janet Lumetta | |
| Coffee and Donut Ministry | Set-up/clean-up & serve coffee/donuts after Sunday Masses | 2 x yearly | Lisa Prost | |
| Hospitality Coordinator | Coordinate volunteers and food for parish events | As Needed | Karen/Lisa | |
| Hospitality Volunteer | Set-Up and prepare food for parish event | As Needed | Karen/Lisa | |
| Launder Table | Linens Pick-up table cloths and launder after a parish event. | As Needed | Karen/Lisa | |
| Indoor Plant Care | Water plants in church, vestibule & parish offices | 2 x yearly | Karen/Lisa | |
| Gospel of Life Committee | A group that educates Catholic teachings on all human life issues. | 1 x Monthly | Marita Mandalari | |
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| Love INC-Fundraising | Help coordinate fundraising events for Love INC | Yearly | Dianne Zande | |
| Love INC-Furniture Ministry | Deliver furniture to clients and/or load/unload furniture | Scheduled | Karen/Lisa | |
| Habitat for Humanity | Fundraise and build | Yearly | Tom Sanna | |
| Nursing Home Mass | Assist with residents at Mass | Monthly | Therese Benninger | |
| Comm. to Nursing Home | Distribute communion to Catholic Residents | 2 X Month | Jim Conant | |
| Deliver to Local Charities | Deliver outreach collection items, on weekdays | As Needed | Karen/Lisa | |
| Soup Kitchen-Youth | Meal service support for Baldwin Church & Center-3rd Sat. of Mo. | 6 x Yearly | Lisa Andridge | |
| Soup Kitchen-Adult | Meal Service support for Baldwin Church & Center-1st Sat. of Mo. | 6 x Yearly | Chris Fogg | |
| Blood Drive-Callers | Make reminder calls prior to blood drive | 4 x Yearly | Bonnie Tout | |
| Giving Tree | Assist with gift wrapping & making tags | Yearly | Gina Horst | |
| Warm Up America | Knit or crochet afgans for the needy | 2 X Month | Virginia Buchanan | |
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Childcare Providers are Needed .... during the after-school
Faith Formation Sessions on Mondays from 5- 6:15 p.m. and
Tuesdays from 6-7:15 p.m. This would involve caring for a
2 1/2 year old on Monday here in Nazareth (the nursery)
and a 4 year old on Tuesdays. Providing this service
enables moms to teach older siblings and youngsters.
Please contact: ctrfamilyministry@ameritech.net
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St. Paul encourages us in todays second reading to focus our thoughts on good things, and in doing so, we may change our hearts and our lives. "Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just " think about those things. I dont think Paul was being "Pollyanna" in his thinking. The reality is that what we think about does affect how we feel, and consequently, how we act. If we spend the day in worrying, we usually end up feeling almost paralyzed with the worry. Perhaps we should focus our thoughts on hope instead of worry. So Paul continues "whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever is commendable " think about these things. When we struggle with feelings of unhappiness, perhaps stopping several times throughout the day to think about those specific things that bring joy might help those feelings. In the words of Paul, this week "may the God of peace be with you." Peace, Nancy THIS WEEK Adult Formation Opportunities If you call yourself a "Green Catholic-Christian" or are concerned about the future of the planet, we invite you to a special film showing on October 9th. Christ the Redeemer will be showing the video Gods Creation and Global Warming at both 9:30 in the morning and again at 7:00 in the evening. Both showings will follow with discussion led by Diane Zande. Come and grow in your awareness of the issues facing our planet. This gathering will take place in the Library. Bible For Rookies begins this Wednesday and Thursday. There will be a morning session on Wednesday, Oct. 8 from 9:30am 11:00am and the same session will be repeated on Thursday evening, October 9th from 7:00 8:30pm. Both sessions will take place in Mark. This is a three week series, with the first week focusing on What Is the Bible, Whats In the Bible we will discuss how to find things in the Bible, the difference between the Old and New Testament, some common words associated with Scripture study (inspiration, revelation). The following weeks will focus on the Old Testament (character, stories, background) and the New Testament (Gospel writers, Acts, letters, and Revelation). No matter what your background, or even if you have no background, you are welcome. Gods Word always opens the soul come and learn how to open the Word. Do you know someone who might be interested in knowing more about the Catholic Church? Is there someone in your family (young adult, adult) who might be "tempted" to become part of the Catholic Church in a more formal way by celebrating Baptism or Confirmation? Please feel free to call Nancy Clancy (248 391 4074, ext. 20) or email ctrdirector@ameritech.net for more information. Calling all couples to a mini-retreat evening on October 17th from 6:30-9:00. The evening will consist of a simple dinner, faith sharing, Scripture and prayer. There will be a little time for couples to share individually and a little sharing around the table. A perfect opportunity for a night out, a bit of community plus the bonus of a little spirituality. Because food is involved, we are Requesting that you RSVP for this evening. We look forward to being together. In the weeks ahead, watch for information about an Evening of Heart Music a chance to appreciate music and poetry as another source of spirituality. Warm Up America
We make new crocheted and knitted afghans of any size, for the needy and can use your helping hands. We can teach you how to knit or crochet and help us do Gods work. Our Warm Up America group meets in Matthew 1 from 9:30-11:00 a.m. on the following Thursdays, October 9 & 23, November 6 & 20 and December 4. Questions call Virginia Buchanan, 248-391-3473. |
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Advent by
Candlelight 2008 Glimpses of Grace Our 9th Annual Advent by Candlelight will be held Thursday, December 4. It is an evening of shared stories and beautiful music; appetizers, desserts and candlelit conversation. Its an ideal opportunity to refresh our spirits so we can enter Advent with a clear focus on what is most important-making room for Christ in our sometimes too-busy lives. Those who wish to host a table for 8 this year should bring their $50.00 check to our annual lottery, which will be held after the 11:00 a.m. Mass on Sunday, November 2. (Please make checks payable to Christ the Redeemer.) At that time, hostesses may pick up their information packets and select their table location (in the order their names are drawn). If you would like to attend but are new to the parish or unable to get a table of friends together, please call us. We will put you on our guest list and find a place for you. Please call Deb Kiefer
(248-391-2357) or Faith Doody (248-391-6845) if you are
unable to attend the lottery, or with any questions you
may have.
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Christmas Tree
Decorating/ Auction to Benefit Love INC Canterbury Village is holding a silent
auction of decorated Christmas Trees during the holiday
season. Proceeds will benefit Love INC. Christ the
Redeemer will decorate one 4 foot pre-lit tree. We are
looking for a team of crafty parishioners who would like
to help organize and decorate a tree. Tree decorating
will take place at Canterbury on Saturday, November 19.
If interested contact Karen/Lisa in the parish office,
248- 391-1621. Brother
Rice High School
Open House Thursday, November 6, From 7:00-9:00 p.m. All 7th & 8th grade students and their families are invited to attend. |
![]() Mass Intentions October 4 & 5 5:00 p.m. For Kathy Luby req. by Pat Ambroso 9:00 a.m. For Stella Kramarczyk req. by Henry & Mary Baker. 11:00 a.m. For the people of the parish. October 7 7:00 p.m. For Conner Byron Meeks req. by the Hiera family. October 10 9:00 a.m. For Esther Morgan req. by Rosemary Liddicoatt October 11 & 12 5:00 p.m. For Dick Stanisz req. by Appledorn family. 9:00 a.m. For Tom Weakland req. by the Plattenberger/Hanson families. 11:00 a.m. For the people of the parish. |
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The Education Commission will be seeking volunteers to help with Formation needs on the week end of October 11 and 12. You dont have to be an educator to help you dont have to be an expert. Our Mission Statement reminds us that we who call ourselves Christ the Redeemer share "in the mission of Jesus to proclaim the Kingdom of God." There are all kinds of opportunities to use your gifts and talents to proclaim the message of Jesus. You might choose direct involvement by sharing faith with the children, youth and adults in the parish; you might choose "behind the scenes" involvement by helping with resources, the library or in the office. You might even choose that this year you will make a concentrated effort to participate more in Faith Formation Opportunities for your own enrichment. No matter what you choose, your involvement helps all of us to be better at proclaiming Jesus to our world.
Specifically, our volunteer list asks you to consider using your gifts for:
Childcare during Formation events
Liturgy of the Word for Children
Catechists, substitutes and aides for the Faith Formation sessions
Assisting with Youth Ministry events
Mentors and sponsors for the RCIA candidates
Hospitality assistance for formation experiences
Office support
And more.
You will also have the opportunity to sign up for reminders about upcoming formation events like Bible studies, series on Prayer, Catholicism or Social Justice issues, Faith Sharing Groups like MOMS or Womens Circle of Faith, and Spirituality evenings.
![]() Free Trade Coffee Coming Soon
.. Free Trade is an organized social movement and market- based approach to alleviating global poverty and promoting sustainability. The movement advocates the payment of a fair price as well as social and environmental standards in areas related to the production of a wide variety of goods. It focuses in particular on exports from developing countries to developed countries, most notably handcrafts, coffee, cocoa, sugar, tea, bananas, honey, cotton, wine fresh fruit & flowers. Fair trades strategic intent is to deliberately work with marginalized producers and workers in order to help them move from a position of vulnerability to security and economic self-sufficiency. It also aims at empowering them to become stakeholders in their own organizations and actively play a wider role in the global arena to achieve greater equity in international trade. We will be serving Free Trade coffee the last weekend of the month for coffee & donuts beginning in October. We will be buying Canticle Café Blend coffee from St. Aloysius Community Center which will help them support the work they do by serving the homeless & marginalized population in the Detroit area as well as supporting the Fair Trade organization. Free Trade coffee is available for purchase through St. Aloysius Community Center in Detroit. We may be able to have it delivered to Christ the Redeemer. We are looking for someone to coordinate coffee sales to interested parishioners. If interested, please call Karen/Lisa in the parish office, 248-391-1621. |
Respect
Life Sunday This weekend the Catholic Church kicks off Respect Life Month as they do each October. Bishop Flores began our reflection on the Sanctity of Life with his wonderful talk here last Thursday on Respect Life and Social Justice. There are many other activities around the archdiocese this month celebrating life from womb to tomb. Please check out the archdiocesan website, and the Michigan Catholic for more details. If Life Issues are a passion for you, we invite you to join us, Christ the Redeemers Gospel of Life group, bimonthly on the first Wednesday of the month at 7:30 p.m. Call Marita Mandalari at 248-881-9135 for more information. |
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![]() There are times in our lives when there is one crisis that seems to put us over the edge. It can be a big or small event; it doesnt matter. But it makes us feel lonely, fearful, inadequate the list of feelings can go on and on. Stephen Ministry provides peer support on a confidential, one-on-one basis. Stephen Ministers are not professionals, but they are trained to listen to your concerns and feelings and to support you. If you would like to get assistance from this ministry, call Karen and Mike Maloney at 248-391-0510. CLASS
We are planning a class in late October for new Stephen Ministers. If you have been thinking about it please give us a call. We would welcome the opportunity to tell you about the program and let you know what is involved. Maybe now is the time God is calling you to help others. Karen & Mike Maloney, 248-391-0510 Its Time for Hay Rides, Pumpkins
and a Magic Show!
The Activities Commission invites you to join fellow parishioners for the Harvest Festival on Sunday, October 12 at 1:30 p.m. at Upland Hills Farm located at 481 Lake George Rd in Oxford. The Harvest Festival will
offer tractor drawn hayrides, a storybook trail, an
Absolutely Baffling magic show, cow milking, and barn
demonstrations. They also offer pony rides, a pumpkin
patch, cider and
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Recycle Your Plastic Plant Pots Have you ever considered how many plastic pots and flats end up in landfills? We think far too many and were doing something about it! Goldner Walsh Garden & Home opened Oakland County's first public collection center for used plastic garden pots and flats. Thanks to new technology, our collection center can accept any plastic container no matter what type of plastic. This project, a part of our Green Initiative, is leading the way to encourage environmentally responsible management of garden plastics. We will recycle thousands of pounds of petroleum-based plastics that would otherwise end up in local landfills. Their address is 559 Orchard Lake Road, Pontiac, MI 48341. Phone: 248-332-6430 Here are few key points about the program: Pots and flats need to be free of debris and neatly stacked they do not have to be washed. We will reward participants by entering them into a monthly drawing for prizes. Collection center weekend hours: Saturday 10am - 5pm, Sunday 11am - 3pm Wojos Nursery in Ortonville will also recycle their plastic pots. Their address is 2570 Oakwood Rd Ortonville, MI 48462 A
Family Perspective by
Bud Ozar Every family is visited by difficult times. These times can pull us together or push us apart. They can be the "cornerstone" which we would naturally "reject" but becomes the unifying point where we drop our pettiness and defenses and pull together, linked by a common bond and a common love for one another. We naturally avoid and "reject" difficult moments. These difficult times can be a "cornerstone" uniting our family and linking us through a difficult experience which becomes a common bond. |
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Live Deeper-Love Stronger Did you ever imagine how a home in which people communicate their interest in each other, resolve problems and demonstrate love can change the life of a child forever? St. Francis/Catholic Social Services of Oakland County needs foster families who believe they can make a difference. Foster parents need not be married, they work outside the home and they balance caring for children as many parents do. Attend a New Foster Parent Orientation scheduled for October 11 and 18. For details, please call James Hutchinson at 248-552-0750, ext. 235. Rainbows
for Children
Rainbows is an organized peer support group designed for school aged children who are trying to adjust to living in a single-parent household, in a step-family or learning to adjust to a significant change in their family life. Well trained, caring adults serve as facilitators who help participants learn to better understand and express their feelings as they begin to move toward emotional healing. Meetings are held on Thursday evenings from 7:00-8:00 p.m. at St. Daniel, Clarkston. To register call Matt or Laura Sanders, 248 625-0121 or email LauraSanders@comcast.net. |
The Many Faces of Abuse Abuse behavior usually follows a three-phase cycle: (1) Tension building of anger and frustration, leading to blame and verbal abuse towards victims; (2) Acute battering incident taking many forms including verbal battering, threats, throwing objects and physical violence; (3) Seeming calm-the batter expresses remorse, apologizes, promises to behave or get help, gifts-anything to reassert control. Family members learn to "walk on eggshells" and live in fear. This cycle repeats and escalates over time unless help is sought and found. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 for immediate assistance. |
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CHRIST
THE REDEEMER CATHOLIC CHURCH 2700 Waldon Road, Lake Orion, MI 48360 Fr. Joe Dailey, Pastor e-mail: ctrpastor@ameritech.net |
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